Как спросить:"Как ты это всё выдерживаешь?"

How do you handle it all? 

 Kate: Good evening Sue. How are you dear? Sorry for calling late, but I want to speak to you.

Sue: Good evening, Kate. I am fine thank you. But I think you are not feeling well. I understood from your voice. No, it is not late. Tell me what is wrong with you?

Kate: Yes, I am not felling very well. I have problems concerning to my work. I do my best but they do not appreciate me. They do not miss the chance to insult me, to shout at me.

Sue: Oh, how terrible. How do you handle it all? 

Kate: I do not know how but I decided to leave that terrible work and find another.

Sue: Very good decision.